Dance Of Empty Arms

Women supporting women through the journey of infertility & nulliparous

DOEA - a place for the pain to be

This is where we leave Motherhood behind

This group is different from traditional infertility and nulliparous supports in that we embrace and open ourselves deeply to the position that becoming a parent may not be an option. We honor and hold sacred the brutality of the infertility journey, as well as the grief of those who have chosen not to have children due to their circumstances. Our goal is to support you in finding peace, calm, and harmony in the place you are in. It's not to say it won't happen for you, but we hold a space for you in your totality—the grief, hopelessness, and despair are all welcomed here. No false hope, no "don't give up," no unsolicited advice, no trying to help you out of the pain that you are in.

Here all of you is welcomed, and you are not alone.

We make no promise's, only...

Self & others, space holding, care, sharing, compassion & listening

Affirming Communication, support instead of being isolated & alone through our experiences

Peace, self responsibility, hero’s journey, aliveness, rich wealth & purpose & fulfilment, joy, wholeness

Feelings, emotions processing, permission, witnessing, allowing,
grief, transmuting

SERVICES

Here we birth ourselves

Everyone is unique, us as a person, our journey and also what we need. We honor this by providing different services you can choose to engage with.

The adventure awaits. Are you ready for the next chapter?

We all contribute here...

Take the survey

Commencing into this community requires your contribution, this private survey gives us an idea of what brings you here and best how to serve you and the community as a whole. This is a co-created space and this is the first step into being amongst like minded, similar journeyed women. Help us, so we can best help you. Survey results are made available to community members, no individuals are identified in the survey result report.

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